Stricter Discipline in Days Gone By

here are many things children get away with-today that we didn't twenty five years ago. No, I'm not talking about the popular whippings, which were dispersed very freely by parents, relatives and teachers. Well, yes, that too, but there are so many other things.

One was expected to carry out certain responsibilities and duties like sweeping the house, raking the yard, doing the dishes, collecting firewood and coconut husks for cooking. Fights between brothers were tolerated, but don't you dare curse or insult your brother. That called for a very special set of punishments.

One thing that was very common was getting locked out. If one came home a bit too late, say after 8 o'clock p.m., father would lock the door and the child would wail and grind his teeth at the door until dad thought that the punishment had been enough. This punishment was considered very harsh, considering that there were no lights and it was pitch black outside, especially on a moonless night and also because we all believed in ghosts.

Good listening skills was also required in days gone by. Parents just did not like repeating. Children soon learned that "Al burro se le habla dos veces- a los ni nos unavez.- (You speak twice to the donkey, but only once to children). After one failure in listening, mom would twist your ears until you were on tiptoes.

One thing that parents would not allow us was to pitch into a conversation of adults. As soon as one opened his mouth, mom or dad would say "And who invited you?" That was enough message for a child to move away with his own peers.

What was even stricter was to stand around and listen to the conversation of adults. For some reason, children love doing this, but parents would simply give us that serious look with a frown at the forehead, and that was enough for the child to move away.

Ah, don't you ever talk and laugh at the table. No Sir, "La mesa no se hizo para hablar- se hizo para recibir la bendici6n de Dios." (The table was not made for talking; it is meant as a place to receive God's blessings). Also children were not allowed to speak with their mouths full of food. They were not allowed to sit at the table with their hats or caps on. They were not allowed to open their mouths and chew their food and make funny noises. "Eres un cochino?" (Are you a pig?) They were not allowed to set their elbows and arms on the table.

These and a few other simple practices were not encouraged 25 years ago in the hope that one would develop into a well-disciplined, obedient and respectful person. It can safely be said that, by comparison, parents paid a lot more attention to discipline 25 years ago than they do today.

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