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#152268 - 05/02/03 04:33 PM Mrs. Zeke getting a little old
CAPTAIN bigzeke Offline
It is important for men to remember that as women grow older it becomes harder for them to maintain the same quality of housekeeping they did when they were younger. When men notice this, they should try not to become upset and yell. Expressing patience is clearly the superior option. Let me relate how I handle the situation.

When I chucked my restaurant and took early retirement a year ago, it became necessary for Mrs.Zeke to get a full-time job both for extra income and for health insurance benefits that we need. She was a trained lab tech when we met thirty some years ago and was fortunate to land a job at the local medical center.

It was shortly after she started working at this job that I noticed that she was beginning to show her age. I usually get home from fishing or hunting about the same time she gets home from work.

Although she knows how hungry I am, she almost always says that she has to rest for half an hour or so before she starts supper. I try not to yell at her when this happens. Instead, I tell her to take her time. I understand that she is not as young as she used to be. I just tell her to wake me when she finally does get supper on the table.

She used to wash and dry the dishes as soon as we finished eating.

It is now not unusual for them to sit on the table for several hours after supper. I do what I can by reminding her several times each evening that the dishes aren't cleaning themselves. I know she appreciates this, as it does seem to help her get them done before she goes to bed.

Our washer and dryer are in the basement. When she was younger, Mrs.Zeke used to be able to go up and down the stairs all day and not get tired. Now that she is older she seems to get tired so much more quickly. Sometimes she says she just can't make another trip down those steps. I don't make a big issue of this. As long as she finishes up the laundry the next evening I am willing to overlook it.

Not only that, but unless I need something ironed to wear to the Monday's lodge meeting or to Wednesday's or Saturday's poker club or to Tuesday's or Thursday's bowling or something like that, I will tell her to wait until the next evening to do the ironing.

This gives her a little more time to do some of those odds and ends things like shampooing the dog, vacuuming, or dusting. Also, if I have had a really good day fishing, this allows her to gut and scale the fish at a more leisurely pace. Mrs.Zeke is starting to complain a little occasionally. Not often, mind you, but just enough for me to notice. For example, she will say that it is difficult for her to find time to pay the monthly bills during her lunch hour. In spite of her complaining, I continue to try to offer encouragement. I tell her to stretch it out over two or even three days. That way she won't have to rush so much. I also remind her that missing lunch completely now and then wouldn't hurt her any, if you know what I mean.

When doing simple jobs she seems to think she needs more rest periods than she used to have to take. A couple of weeks ago she said she had to take a break when she was only half finished mowing the yard. I overlook comments like these because I realize it's just age talking. In fact, I try to not embarrass her when she needs these little extra rest breaks. I tell her to fix herself a nice, big, cold glass of freshly squeezed lemonade and just sit for a while. I tell her that as long as she is making one for herself, she may as well make one for me and take her break by the hammock so she can talk with me until I fall asleep.

I could go on and on, but I think you know where I'm coming from.

I know that I probably look like a saint in the way I support Mrs.Zeke on a daily basis. I'm not saying that the ability to show this much consideration is easy. Many men will find it difficult.

Some will find it impossible. No one knows better than I do how frustrating women can become as they get older. My purpose in writing this is simply to suggest that you make the effort. I realize that achieving the exemplary level of showing consideration I have attained is out of reach for the average man.

However guys, even if you just yell at your wife a little less often because of this post, I will consider that writing it was worthwhile.
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#152269 - 05/02/03 04:57 PM Re: Mrs. Zeke getting a little old
GAY AND DAVID Offline
y is it all the good ones are married eek

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#152270 - 05/02/03 05:22 PM Re: Mrs. Zeke getting a little old
Marie Offline
That was cute!

You are obviously a saint Zeke! So considerate! It warms the heart! Every woman on this site will agree!

So, how many cast iron skillets has she smashed over your head??? Or, was it just Farberware? Then, there is always the random knife in the throat to consider, or may I delicatly say, elsewheres. Not to worry, she was just in a premenopausal mood that day. Maybe you should start learning to duck, in case she does take up that amusement between her other chores!!!!!!!!!!!!! What do the boxers say...is it "bob and weave"? I'd start practicing if I were you. It may not be long until you need that skill!!!! Good luck! Count on it, every woman on this site will pray about you!

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#152271 - 05/02/03 06:06 PM Re: Mrs. Zeke getting a little old
Ernie B Offline
Yeah Zeke.... I know what you mean. I even let my wife of 40 years, shine my shoes after I go to bed so I won't tell her how to do the spit shine thing. I think she really likes it better that way, so, I do all I can !
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#152272 - 05/02/03 11:55 PM Re: Mrs. Zeke getting a little old
dbdoberman Offline
haha, good thoughts, Zeke laugh

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#152273 - 05/03/03 12:27 AM Re: Mrs. Zeke getting a little old
Anonymous
Big Zeke,
You know you've got a good one to put up with your crap!! I miss ya honey... when are you guys heading down????

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