hi vicki. i think debbie probably told you that she & i have become great friends, daily email pen-pals. she enjoyed meeting you. i'm glad you finally got your stuff. i hope the bz home turns out to be all you dream it will.
you have been thru a lot (debbie told me some time ago), and i wanted to relate a story to you: a friend of mine lost a 2 year old 2 years ago. he, too, was ill from birth. never walked or talked, or even cried. her husband got mad at the world, and renounced god for taking him from them. she did not, but said a profound thing to me, which i will never forget. they are not particularly religious, but she said that she felt SO honored to be chosen as caretaker of this little angel for the precious time she was allowed, and that someone else may not have been fortunate enough to appreciate the gift he was. she treasured every moment, rather than feeling cursed. i really have an enormous amount of respect for both her and for you.
best to you, vicki. love your new home.