A dream 17th anniversary trip down the drain.... Niklauryn
while i feel for your plight, that's a pretty melodramatic statement.
i have gotten great deals on very nice places in off season. it probably isnt what you want to do or hear, but if i were you and wanted a nice anniversary, i'd skip all the bullshit, drop the timeshare idea this time around, and book a few rooms at off season specials, or rent a beautiful private beachhouse that sleeps many people. if you want something to work out bad enough, you have to make it happen.
if II is bugging you or not working with you, and you really want a nice anniversary, just blow them off and do it yourself.
like harriette said, its belize, and you have to roll with it. many times the lemonade turns out to be better than the lemons.