I just received a call from my brother, Jim Hanna. He has a house on the lagoon side behind the Palapa Bar. He indicated that the Palapa House was still standing, but the bar was gone. I thought I read that your wife was staying there? I hope this helps.
He used a boat to get into town to stand on top of a roof to use his cell phone. He is going to try to call tomorrow at 6PM EST (4BZ time)