people without kids often forget kids exist. i know i never considered them until i had them. it was not galeen's fault for not picking well. she just never thought about it. (she will from now on, tho!)
i did not think AC was a place for my little ones and left them home last time. now they are going in may. that said, i am a good mom, and keep my kids in check when in public. if mine acted like that, they'd be OUTTA there! but they know better.
it was their vaca too and they should be allowed to have fun. but the parents needed to respcet that it is the other's vaca's as well.
i believe that up north she would not have had that problem. at JE, i was the ONLY ONE in the pool! and on the beach, for that matter.