If Frank hasn't "officially" said NO yet, then there is still a chance.... Did you leave the Caribbean Travel magazines on the coffee table and near his computer like I said???? Pour him a beer in one those Belikin glasses. Put together a collection of San Pedro pictures in a frame and present it to him for Easter or something. I will literaly croak if you're not there for my birhtday!!!!! Use your charms and power of persuasion for heavens sake!!