sounds like man problems, Jane, my daughter is going thru the same thing. lotsa hugs are needed. we'll be thinking of you too, and hope the new year puts some miles between us and our problems, and as the worm turns it brings us great joy. all is for the better.

luv ya'll, so many people don't realize the friends that can be made without meeting...

and remember what i tell my daughter and her friends, all men are dogs.