We had the same experiencs with some folks we know. After some thought, I told them to find Coconuts and have a drink with Margie. Funny thing is when we talked to them after their trip we were told that that was one of the best things they did on their Cruise. Even watching this board, I think most people over plan their trips. Spend some time making friends with the locals. It's the people you meet that make a trip special, not how many spots you can visit in a few days.