I just got back from San Pedro. Don't expect a lot of wild beach parties, you will not find them. Most people are just plain worn out by a day of diving their butts off. We did have a nice BBQ on the beach one night. The Chicken Drop was pretty wild. Avoid Tarzan's unless you are into BAD local kareoke. I mean BAD. You might enjoy a night of drinking and dancing at Fido's. I'd say it's up to their parents if the boys imbibe adult beverages. Let them have a few Belekin's and they will sleep better.