Tuff question Terry P. Been there done dat, but had THE MOST WONDERFUL TIME OF MY LIFE; and it didn't work out. But it sounds like some do. Go with it, but don't make any urgent plans to sell everything you own just yet. You probably need to go hang out with him again....maybe a surprise visit if you don't get any of the red lights mentioned above. I feel for ya gial. BUT, ya never know! Best of luck. Hope it's real.