Usually people are helpful if you can give some specifics of what you're looking for location-wise (in town, south of town, north of the bridge). We have a place north of the bridge where it's a little quieter, but many people prefer to be within walking distance of town with a little more going on. You might read San Pedro Scoop's blog to get a feel for activities and restaurants, etc. The search function at the top will also help with peoples' opinion on places to stay, eat, tours, etc.

I hope you get some helpful responses now! When are you planning to be down?