tincup: don't rule out the heels. Some of us think that woman are very sexy in heels. You can go to many of the nice restaurants, if you are not walking, and get by in heels. When you then go to like Fido's and want to dance, and maybe are concerned about getting the heels caught in the cracks in the floor, you can take them off. That also goes for the dress you might have worn or anything else you have on.
PS: it was that kind of thought I had on my mind when they took the picture of me that is my avatar ( or what ever you call those pictures under the name ).