I don't know you or the problems you are going through right now, but Betty and I have worked with support groups for many years now and know it is a bitter experience.
One of the greatest things we recomend is the book "Rebuilding" by Dr. Bruce Fisher.
It is one of the greatest tools to help a person heal from a broken relationship, whether
from divorce, separation or death.
I'm not Dr. Phill but we have the same hairdoo!
Our hearts are with you and give yourself a big hug;
Dan'l & the Boop