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#174994 - 04/05/05 07:51 AM db  
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it's ok ..ask frown

#174995 - 04/05/05 10:55 AM Re: db  
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Ask what?

A fish and a bird can fall in love, but where will they build their nest?

#174996 - 04/05/05 05:23 PM Re: db  
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sup dobie?

#174997 - 04/05/05 06:19 PM Re: db  
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NYG, what's up??? you ok?

#174998 - 04/05/05 08:32 PM Re: db  
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Last night, a very close childhood friend broke the news to me that she has cancer. I was in shock then, and today am wondering how best to help her, what to say, what to do. I really am lost, but it's not about me, it is all about her. I don't want her to feel she must play the part of comforter to me. I really don't know how to handle this. She has been a large part of my life for so long, and I want her to remain in it. I don't know if there is any right way to be, or right words to say. I just don't want to say the wrong thing.

Thanks NYP, for your concern. You are a sweetheart.

#174999 - 04/05/05 08:49 PM Re: db  
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damn, dobie frown

You'll know the right time to say & do the right thing - it's an inborn thing we all have, it sometimes doesn't make itself known to us until we are challenged beyond what we think our boundaries are. She'll be strong and when she isn't you'll be there for her and she'll prop you up too, without her even knowing it. That's what friends do.

Hang tuff dude...we're here for ya....

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#175000 - 04/05/05 08:51 PM Re: db  
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Oh Dob, I know how hard it is for you and especially your friend. Many prayers coming your way.

Dob just be there, stay close to her.

Dare To Deviate
#175001 - 04/05/05 08:58 PM Re: db  
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klc, I hope it is inborn, now would not be the time for me to fumble. Thanks bud.

Chloe, thanks babe, prayers are powerful.

#175002 - 04/05/05 09:03 PM Re: db  
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sorry for your situation dobie. I've had a couple of friends near death....and yet with my
help and encouragement, along with their internal strength have made it. Then I've also had very dear ones....too young to die, I've lost as well. Just be there for your friend. You're a good friend and I know you'll do what's right. Love ya.

#175003 - 04/05/05 09:15 PM Re: db  
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We ANTI's are wonderful people, aren't we wink

It will all work out db.
How's Chester smile

Thanks Jane for wondering.

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