I've been living here on the island for the past years and between that time i started a long distance relationship. I am here and he is in the US. We see each other like once ever2 months. U think this is healthy, or is he cheating? do all men cheat?
Just curious

Trust is the foundation of a relationship, having said that, what gave you a clue to ask that question?

its just hard to trust when I know that there are lots of pretty girls around him. I also heard a man comment the other day that all men cheat, its like a urge or something.

Islandbabe, of course all men cheat. A normal healthy man needs a woman and can't wait for two months to get a little nookie. It's not an urge it's a something.

All men do not cheat. I have been happily married for 37 years and have never cheated. All men do, however, look. But that is another subject.

Take it from me... well maybe I'm a poor example. But don't lump all men together. However, a long distance relationship normally does not work out... unless there are concrete plans about either you moving to the States or he moving to the island... there is no sense for any other plan.

islandbabe can't be real...

but NYGal is?????

You betcha.....kiss kiss

Usually age does not matter, but Islandbabe are you 18 yrs old or older?