Just a friendly reminder....
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01/18/07 02:39 PM
01/18/07 02:39 PM
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My husband and I just returned from our third trip to AC. AC is very beautiful, fun, friendly, and charming, but we encountered the ugly underbelly of the island this time and want to remind everyone to be cautious and aware of your surroundings. This trip, we stayed at an inexpensive place in town. One afternoon/evening, my husband and I, along with our friends who were staying on the south side of the island tied on a few drinks and had a great time partying in town. We retired to our room early (around 9:30). At about 10:30, my husband decided we needed some bottles of water, so he ventured out across the street to the store, and I must have dozed off. At around 2:00 am, I woke up to my husband standing in the doorway of our hotel room, completely dazed, confused, and filthy dirty. Apparently, the store across from our hotel was closed, so he went down a side street (not an alley, but a pretty wide street) to try another store. At that point, he was attacked by three young men. He was knocked in the head with some sort of pole, beaten up pretty badly, and robbed. He was most likely knocked unconscious since he was gone for so long, but he's having trouble remembering a lot of the attack. The incident has both of us really shaken up, and I mostly blame myself and my husband for not being more aware and cautious. If I wouldn't have had so much to drink, I would have never let him go out; if he hadn't had so much to drink, even if he did go out, he would have been more aware of his surroundings, etc, etc, etc. So, please, eat, drink, be merry, have a great time, but remember there are people everywhere (not just in AC) who are watching and waiting to take advantage of us. Don't go anywhere alone, be extremely aware of your surroundings, and stay in more populated areas. I'm very sad because now this attack has become the dominant memory in my mind about AC, and not my beautiful wedding 5 1/2 years ago or the wonderful people and places we've met and seen in Belize over our several trips there. I don't want this to happen to anyone else. Be happy, be careful. Peace.
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Re: Just a friendly reminder....
[Re: Married in AC]
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01/18/07 02:47 PM
01/18/07 02:47 PM
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Did you contact the authorities?
If you must choose between two evils, pick the one you've never tried before.
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Re: Just a friendly reminder....
[Re: Married in AC]
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01/18/07 04:42 PM
01/18/07 04:42 PM
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Wow, I know how difficult this is. I was a medical volunteer in Ghana last summer and something much like this happened. It really, really sucks. It is why I never leave my house now without carrying a gun (I can do this legally in the US). That is my one reservation about moving to Belize--I can't have guns, so its harder to defend myself.
In any case, I'm very, very sorry for what happened. It really sucks.
I'm not over what happened to me in Ghana yet, I still have nightmares, and despite all of the wonderful people in Ghana, the one thing that sticks out in my mind is what happened. I hope that you will come back to AC many many times, and develop more wonderful memories to outweight that one horrible one.
Can you tell us exactly where it happened? Somewhere in San Pablo, but where? I'd like to avoid this area!
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Re: Just a friendly reminder....
[Re: Amanda Syme]
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01/19/07 05:18 PM
01/19/07 05:18 PM
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We didn't make a police report for a couple of reasons (other than not really remembering much). First, we were just really freaked out, and I was worried about the remainder of our stay, the possibility of a "revenge" attack if word got out that we reported the incident. We were also told by several "gringos" who live on the island that the police were somewhat corrupt and would not do anything about it. We probably should have reported it, but, quite frankly, I was scared to death to draw any more attention to myself or my husband. I'm still having an extremely hard time getting over the incident. Not to mention my husband (although he's being a "man" about it and calling it no big deal). I just hope that my posting this here will make a difference and prevent this happening to someone else. Thanks, everyone, for your kind words and supportive PM's. Amanda, Now that we are off the island, if you would like me or my husband to talk with the police, we are happy to do so. Jennifer
Last edited by Married in AC; 01/19/07 10:53 PM.
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