I think Mata chica would be a fantastic place for a second honeymoon. Very romantic. But you had better be prepared for a much quieter time than you had at Ramon's.
You can't compare the two resorts except in that they are totally different. Mata Chica does not have a pool, but their Cabanas are beautiful, uniquely and artistically decorated.
I haven't eaten there but have seen others descriptions touting very good food. The resort is pricey but reports are that it's worth it.
I think Ramon's is pricey for what you get too and the food doesn't get any raves from me or most reports on this board. Nice Disney-like pool though if that's what you are looking for. Ramon's is in a far busier location with a nice, cleared beach. It is close to the restaurants and the shops of town which could be a plus for some.
It all depends on your desires at that time which appear to be quite different than previously.
[This message has been edited by Sandcrab (edited 09-03-2000).]