Isla,
Here is some advice that was given to me, You will find what you are looking for.Where are you going to meet guys any way, think about that???and as for the lying trust me that is not a natural phenomenon that only occurs in San Pedro, im pretty sure that happens all over,I'm pretty sure that even in Alaska you will find that there are some men who will not be honest about their relationship status.Just keep an open mind.And don't be so hung up on finding a man, enjoy the island, im sure you'll have fun, even if your single