FYI, I've rebooked my 'get away'. I will be arriving Nov 8 and departing the 12th. Just a few days to get the hell away from life.
It's been a rollercoaster ride for me the past few weeks, for sure! The ex still contacting me, but me doing my best to maintain no contact (only done so-so in this regard though). Long story short, twice before she broke up with me with the two of us getting back together. Her, I believe, regretting her decision both times (after the second break up, she wrote, "I think I royally f&%$*ed up".)
Oh well, I'll be back there on the 8th of Nov!!!