Our son was 13 when we arrived, and it was the hardest on him. As with your daughter, he was on the computer and in the house all day long. That was part of our reasoning for coming to Belize. Everything here is outside and for the most part, sports and family oriented. It was great for him and he thriving now, hoping to attend college in the US this fall. Our daughters were 4 and 10 when we moved, there have been rough patches for them, but on the whole it has been better than living in NJ and NO SNOWWWWW!!!!!