Do you think maybe in reality the man wish they can be (West Side) and the woman would want the opportunity to meet a awesome Belizean man. Not only was he respectable but was caring and a great cook, not to mention tender and kind. Maybe that's the reason everyone seem so unpleasant at time.
"Kindness is an inner desire that makes us want to do good things even if we do not get anything in return. It is the joy of our life to do them. When we do good things from this inner desire, there is kindness in everything we think, say, want and do."