Have you already planned it with a person who can perform it? I was just wondering because my Fiance and I might do the same thing be we are thinking about leaving it to the last minute, but I am not sure if we can do that. So I was wonding if you had someoen lined up. It would have been great if you did and we were going at the same time, then he/or she could marry you all and them us, and we could share the fee! I am going May 26th.