hazzyy, you're the exception. I, too have moved to other states after a quick look see and never regretted it. I didn't count on a bunch of strangers on a message board to arrange for my future either. I've seen too many people look at the pretty pictures, figure they are going to be entitled to same courtesies of home, and pick up family and move. Within a few months the new wears off, they realize it really isn't like any place they've ever been, and they are madly scrambling to figure out a way to go back home. I'm an experiential junkie and fly by the seat of my pants all the time...and my relocation plan has taken almost 4 years! Everyone just needs to have an exit plan.