again, call me old fashioned but when one puts their wee wee into someone else's hoo-hoo, that's screwing around, whether the partner is there or not. do what you want - its your right and prerogative...but that is the thinking that kills the sanctity of marriage. you swore to be betrothed to each other, what's so hard or boring about monogamy? i think my hunny ROCKS!!, and never look elsewhere, never.
remember, (general blanket statement to all) the downfall of rome was hedonism (and too much occupation) - we're following in their footsteps as fast as we can.
as alwyays, JMHO