Jackie
With the risk of sounding like a one of those "childless" "unmarried" feminists, I say don't eeeeeevvvvvveeeerrr let a man turn something wonderful into something you would rather forget! Don't know why we women continue to do this. You never hear a man say "I can't go back there. The memories are just too painful." If there are still some lurking recollections when you get there, I will be glad to help (ie.,panty rippers, dancing, laughing til you pee your pants fun!) erase them and make this trip what it should be. Wonderful! I will e-mail later and we will talk more.