well go to casa picasso get the big table in the corner in the back .after a few of chri's killer martin's they will be down a notch,in voice range and feeling,happy ,happy, thats a good plan . very good food, great drinks ,good crowd . service is top draw.you can call chris and get a special meal planned in advance.but leave room for the desserts a must...go live your dream and enjoy your loud spouse's .... because love is grand and life way too short!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! have fun..