The week-end I quit smoking, many years ago, and this almost 20 year old girl kept pestering me. I warned her over and over that I was not being too together. Finally she came crying to me and asked "Why does everyone treat me like I'm a whore?" I snapped back "If you didn't dress like a whore maybe people wouldn't treat you like one."
We are responsible for the reactions we get by the way we dress and the way we act. So, dress accordingly.