You know I was thinking more about this and it causes me to remember a friend of mine who was very unhappily married. When I asked him why he just didn't get a divorce he told me that he would lose everything (house,computer, stuff like that) in the process. So I pondered this and asked him then if he cared more about 'things' than happiness. I haven't seen him for some time but I'm sure to this day he still chooses the "things". That is very sad to me.