Ernie, it doesn't pay to be overly-sensitive on the internet. My take on it is that Collyk believed she was sticking up for a friend. Whereas, you like anyone else, were somewhat offended to be taken for anyone other than who you actually are. Why would you want anyone to mistake you for a "fluffy little kitten, marshmallow, cutie wutey, honey pie inside". Especially, when you are so obviously not that.