After reading the comments with their warning to others,I decided to write about a few things I observed in my years on CC. There are different sides to every story &all previous posts make sense,it all depends on each&everyones opinion.I have come across many tourists who have been cheated by Harry&people like Jools who thought they found love&happiness&end up being hurt&left short of money in which they kindly gave,thinking they will be giving the guy a chance for a better life,but he only waste it,usually on his own problems.I heard of a group of tourist giving Harry money with his promise that he will cook for them a big BBQ dinner to celebrate their last night on the island,but they end up going hungry as he never showed up.But Harry isn't the only one,there are many on the island.These guys like Harry,may say they love&care for you&that you are the first white girl they have fallen in love with&slept with,but it is all lies,you are just one of many many girls.Most of these guys are NOT single,they do have a partner &kids living on the island.I have seen the look of humiliation,embarrassment& hurt on the face of these guys partner (wives/girlfriends),when they walk down the street or into a bar only to see some girl and their guy all over each other. These partner having to work in their job&provide good polite customer service,knowing the customer they are serving is the girl who slept with their guy the night before.These partners love their guy&they have a good relationship with them,but when some tourist girl offers meals,sex&maybe some money, these guys just can't resist,because if they do,they know some other guy will benefit,so it might as well be them.CC is a small place and what these guys partners don't see,they will be told by someone who does see.It is not just the tourist girls who comes looking for a fun time,just so they can write home telling about their romantic&sexual experience with a 'local guy',there are some local woman who want their share&some group tour leaders who pass through every few months with their groups, knowing they will get their sexual fix with their 'CCguy'.Some of these woman are fully aware these guys have a partner&even know who they are,but that doesn't stop any of them.These guys don't care about anyones feelings,as long as they can get what they want in the short time they have with the girl&they know there will always be the next girl.While they can get what they want from you they will always say they love you.The girls like Jools who fall for these guys charms&end up disappointed,hopefully will be wiser from the experience,but because of their naivety doesn't give them an excuse for their actions either.There is the occassional tourist who finds a single guy&moves to the island to live with him,life is good at first until he can't resist the tourist girls,&then she is the one to experience the other side.Harry&the other guys will always do what they do,because they can,while there is someone willing to give,they will always be willing to take as much as they can get.I have known many good relationships&families destroyed by the acts of these woman&guys,it is so sad.Jools,I am sorry that you were a victim of Harry but you were not the only victim,his partner is a victim as well,&so are all the partners&kids to all the other guys who are just like Harry.It is easy for a visitor to leave CC not even realizing or aware of the damage they have inflicted on those who remain,as this is their home, their life&who try&accept it all as part of life with their man.These situations happen all around the world, everywhere &is unfortunate.Maybe,if people have a bit more self espect &consideration for others&less self indulgence there be fewer victims out there.The cheating and scamming done by these guys is inexcusable&is absolutely wrong&I also would like to hear their side of the story&their definition of the word love.For those girls visiting, whether you come for a good time or ones like Jools, before you start having your bit of romance and fun with Harry or others like him on the island,spare a thought for their partners &kids & think how you would feel if you were them.