Alright my people. This is getting terribly negative and bitter.

I'm black American Rasta and I feel that in whatever you choose conciously that harms yourself or someone else, is wickedness and chickens will come home to roost.

I'm married to a Belizean bred and BOTH of us have been involved with others since being apart. We've shared experiences, fought, and hassled over hella issues. Whatever spouses can reconcile, forgive, or accept is between them.

A lot of people hustle or get hustled. Locals and tourists alike. Locals need to eat, tourists provide opprotunity and are sadly caught up on some jungle feva trip and become mislead, which is unfortunate. Homie is RARELY going to be brought home to Copenhagen or Alberta. One's holiday doesn't necessarily translate into reality.

Being with a Belizean bred to me is JUST like being with a bred from Oakland with a Caribbean accent and maybe more often barefooted. Not many sisters like me even find their way to C.A.; too hectic a region. Those who do go are of a tougher sensibility and can weather the drama that comes with having love for a brother. It is a different cultural dynamic entirely and much more difficult for white women as they will tolerate more than a sister ever would.

Some of the women on CC are quite strong and even if they choose to end their relationships, have the fortitude of spirit to continue living a life in Belize. For that I have respect.

Choose the blessed life you want and can handle, but live righteous. No one person can judge another. We all have issues in our lives to contend with and consequences for the choices we make.

bless bliss up!