Oh my gosh, Spyder, I just went and looked the word up and I am so sorry that I typed it. I would never, ever use that kind of word in conversation and I should have looked it up before I used it here. I have edited my post and I sincerely apologise to everyone who read it.
Because I come from a unique culture myself, I understand that there is a huge difference between the language/words used with family and others of common culture and the same language/words used by, for lack of a better word, outsiders.
Again, I'm sorry.