Would it help if I added the follow up Diane?
The Dali Lama give the Pizza guy $100 and waits....
The waiter tells him.."change only comes from within...."
To be one with everything means to be unified with everything else. This is a main concept in Buddhism, Hinduism, etc. where one feels that everything else is a part of self. To be one with everything is one of the higher aims of such religions.